As a mother in law (You and your daughter in law)
:
This perhaps is one of the most misinterpreted relations for a young girl
who is about to be married. Tales of bridal torture, torching, overburdened with
work all these thoughts cloud her mind. The projected villain here is a mother
in law. Lack of education can be said to be one of the attributes for this
mindset other attributes include the numerous real life incidents which are
highlighted in TV channels, news prints, magazines etc.
But all mother in laws are not the same there are good people too. If your
daughter in law seems frightened of you or is not herself when you are around
you got a problem here. Think of it you too were in her shoes once so you know
what she must be feeling in her heart you will need to comfort her treat her as
your own daughter after all she has married your son. The prime importance here
should be the well being of your family whether it's mental health or physical
health. So make your daughter in law your friend share jokes, go shopping,
surprise your husbands, there's so much to do than to create a fuss over small
things. |