As A Wife (You & Your Husband )

Your happy personal life is determined by how is your Relations with the people around you. As there are so many roles a women has to play such as a mother, a wife, a working woman, house wife, mother in law, daughter in law, a daughter, a sister etc...

To keep your home together and happy it is important to know each role's responsibilities and problems, and to be a good mother, wife, mother in law, daughter in law, sister or a daughter. Is certainly not easy but not either impossible.

Ever wondered why there are so many problems, it's simply because both men and women miss out on finer details that are imperative to a relation.

This is the most important relation in woman's life. You should always encourage your husband in his work, he should know that you are always there for him. Little things like surprising him with a candle night dinner at home when he comes home can work wonders for his feelings towards you.

You need to also understand that work pressures may sometime make him upset so do not harass him to have his dinner he's not a kid, if you constantly stand on his head telling him what to do he is bound to shout at you.

Never discuss your family or personal secrets (involving your husband and you) with even your closest friends. If your husband knows that you discuss his love talk or mushy verses with your friends he will never forgive you for this.

When you attend a corporate party or a club party you will be most vulnerable to questions on your personal life so avoid them smartly, words like if you don't mind I'd rather keep these things out of here. Be forthright in replying as the person asking should themselves know these questions are not to be asked.

Let's face the facts it's a give and take relationship you simply can't ignore the human nature here. It comes into play some where or the other.

Small things make a huge difference in your relationship. Things like greeting him with a hug or a kiss when he returns from work, buying him something sweet (may be things like a personal shaver, cologne, ties, a leather bag etc..) leave love notes for him on his study or send flowers on unusual places may be at a golf course. He certainly will feel proud in front of his friends, who'll think wow what a sweet wife he has she loves him so much.. It doesn't cost you the earth to do this you can melt his heart with whatever you do for him. 

Instead of expecting that your husband should do this that make the first move to show him you that you care you won't be disappointed with the results you get.